Thursday, October 16, 2014

My best friend.

I never quite understood what it was to be content with just my husband until recently. 

Of course, family & friends will always be a part of my life. But I've always had to have a best friend other than my husband. I've always had a best friend since I can remember. And I always felt like I had to have a best friend. Everyone says it's healthy to have a good girl best friend you can always go to. 

But the more I grow up, the more I realize I can't really depend on anyone all the time. It's not a bad thing. People have their own lives and their own business to handle. But you know who is always there for me? My husband. 

My husband is my best friend. What better best friend to have than someone who shares all your moments with you, roots for your success, holds you when you fail of hurt, and truly cares about your goals. Someone who shares your goals with you...? That's my husband. 

I never quite understood why my mom and dad didn't go out with their friends. Or why they never really had a "go to" friend. But I do now...their go to friend was who they shared their life and home with...it was each other. And what a beautiful thing to have. 

As I said, I don't think it's bad to have friends that you go out with or that you have lunch with or talk with...I think that's really healthy and good. But what I have realized for myself is the only best friend I can have in my life that will truly understand me, is my husband. And I think we make a great team. We put each other first, and I think that's how it should be. 

I love you my man...my husband. My Mexican. My vato. My honey buns. My handsome pantsome. My everything. You have turned my world upside down in the best possible way. You have made me see things I could have never seen on my own. You have told me things I didn't want to hear so it could better me as a person. You have put my thoughts and feelings above your own. You have supported me in all my goals. You have told me when I'm being childish or petty. You have been honest with me in the most loving and kind ways. You truly make me happy. Something I haven't been in years. You have made all this possible for my life and I love you so much for that. You are truly the kindest most genuine person I have ever met. And I love that our daughter will learn what a guy's love should be like from you. 

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